You gotta spend some time, love
“So….who was the one who organized this so everyone would meet up for lunch?” he asks loudly as we all meet up by the escalator that goes down to the cafeteria, and he examines our group of interns.
“That would be me,” I answer. We shake hands firmly, and as soon as we introduce ourselves to each other, I know this kid is going to be intriguing.
We immediately connect over our mutual love of planning things. He tells me how he loves putting together events, get-togethers, everything. He says, “I want to plan a bunch of intern trips and outings, maybe to go whitewater rafting, things like that.” Me too, I nod, and I tell him about AB, about my ideas for outings, and all that. He says we should work together to plan epic activities. I agree, and I’m surprised because I wasn’t expecting to meet someone who also wanted to put together intern getaways. He adds: ”If I plan a trip, it has to be planned down to the last detail. Everything has to go smoothly, and the outings have to be unique. Memorable.” Cool, since I’m sort of crazy about those things, too.
He tells me about his love of travel, his trip to Australia. I tell him about Brazil. He tells me about Germany. I tell him about Sweden. This goes back and forth in a game of conversational where-have-you-been ping-pong, and I feel like we are both simultaneously good friends and competitors already.
The next day, we’re talking about vegetarians, and he throws in a “ba-dum-chhhh” pun: “Hey, I like them because at least I’ll never have a beef with any of them!” I laugh and then sort of hold my breath for a second because quite frankly, it’s scary how that was the same sort of terrible pun I would make.
Later that day, he works with me via Office Messenger (….like IM for work) to put together an invite for a welcome dinner at a nearby restaurant. We debate over the best way to send this out, what with 70-something interns and the potential for inbox chaos. He includes my name as one of the organizers, but I can tell he got a rush from being the one to put together the mass email. I know I would.
At dinner the following day, 30+ interns show up, and we all occupy a good portion of the restaurant. He’s organized everything flawlessly—making reservations way early in the day, ensuring the waiters and waitresses know the occasion, working out timing so the restaurant won’t give up our seats. It is impressive. As we sat down and looked at our menus, he said, “You know what would be fun? If we made this like a speed dating thing, where each person talks to someone and then switches so they can meet another intern after 10 minutes or so.” Brilliant. It’s the perfect plan.
Then, he tells me that later in the week, he has to find a way to get to violin practice that night at some place called Potomac, MD, at a place called Churchill High School.
Yeah, I know. Too weird.
Of ALL places to have violin practice.
I offer to drive him to Churchill since I have to deal with 495 traffic anyway, and he gladly accepts and is excited for the ride to my alma matter. On our ride there, I ask him the basics. Favorite music, favorite color, all that. He answers:
“My favorite color is turquoise.” Uh, cool. Me too.
“Coldplay’s my favorite band, even though some people think they’re too mainstream.” Coincidence-they’re my favorite, too.
I ask him if he’s a Death Cab for Cutie fan as well, as they are another one of my favorites.
“Yeah. I love them. Especially the song ‘I Will Possess Your Heart.’ But the extended version, not the radio version.” That song is one of my favorites, and I am very much in love with the extended version.
Shit, I think. This is strange.
Same favorite books.
Favorite Writers.
Habit of using of hashtags as Facebook statuses.
I think, this is getting really weird. Like Freaky Friday weird.
I can’t help but thinking this kid is one of the most interesting, eerily-similar individuals I have ever met in my life, and I can already tell we will have a very unique friendship, one in which he will challenge me and irritate me at times and still become one of my closest confidantes. The song is fitting to his personality; in fact, I can almost hear him responding to this post with the lyrics:
“You gotta spend some time, Love.
You gotta spend some time with me.
And I know that you’ll find, love.
I will possess your heart….”


